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Help available in Sheffield 08088082241

You have the right to love your life free from fear, violence and abuse. 

Domestic abuse is about power and control and can involve physical, emotional , sexual and financial abuse as well as forced marriage and honor based violence. It is rarely a one-off incident and tends to get worse over time. You might feel frightened, humiliated and isolated.

Remember: you are not to blame and you are not alone.

Domestic abuse can happen to anyone regardless of gender, age, race, class, culture, disability, sexuality or lifestyle. It is acknowledged in Sheffield that men can experience abuse and women can be abusers.

Call the Sheffield Domestic Abuse Helpline on 08088082241. Sheffield Domestic Abuse Helpline is free from landlines and mist mobile networks.

Visit Sheffield Domestic Abuse website or email

Is this a confidential service?

What you tell the Sheffield Domestic Abuse Helpline about yourself and your circumstances is confidential and they will respect your need for safety. If there are urgent safety issues for you, another adult, or a child or young person, which will require the disclosure of information, they will keep you involved and informed of this.



Sheffield Drug and Alcohol/Domestic Abuse Coordination Team. (2016). Retrieved from

Types of domestic abuse

Domestic Violence and Domestic Abuse is not just about physical abuse, it includes other behaviours such as emotional and psychological, sexual, financial, coercive control and isolating people.

It happens within intimate relationships as well as between family members. You are not to blame and you are not alone; there is help available and you can escape. A pattern of bullying and controlling behaviours form and most men do not believe or feel they are a victim until sometime after they no longer have control of their life and have become isolated.

The abuse tends to get worse over time and is rarely a one-off event. Abusers can be very manipulative in the way they use their power and control over you and may blame you and other factors for their abusive behaviours.

You are not alone; men from all backgrounds, professionals and sexualities are reaching out for help against domestic abuse. Government’s statistics show one in six men will be a victim in their lifetime and one in three of all victims of domestic abuse are men.
We have stories from some men, which can be viewed by clicking the links below, who have had the confidence to come forward in order to help build others with their (names have been changed to respect anonymity), along with a blog for you to be able to speak to others.

Graham’s Story

Sam’s Story


Help Guide. (2016). Domestic Violence and Abuse Signs of Abuse and Abusive Relationships. Retrieved from